The Conclusion

I feel like every year is similar to a chapter in a book.  The only difference is that I can’t revise that chapter.  There is no editing, it is simply done.   But, the next chapter has the scent of a fresh beginning.   A chance to anticipate all the ebbs and flows of a new year.…

The Moment

A week ago, I wrote about an experience where someone had used the “R” word in my presence.  This was a person I was unfamiliar with who happen to be in a group setting with me.  I had left the room to collect myself as he used it not once but twice.   While I thought…

The Opportunity

If you are a regular reader of my blog then you are well aware of my intense dislike for New Year’s resolutions.    I know that everyone anticipates that the new year brings a fresh start and while that is a lovely sentiment, were you aware that you can have that everyday?   Every. Single. Day. …

The Secret

“Can I tell about the secret?”   This was the question from my oldest regarding the engagement of his cousin/best friend to his longtime girlfriend.  I was confused because we all knew that they had just gotten engaged hours before so I wasn’t sure why he was asking.   It was public knowledge and we were all…

The Secret

“Can I tell about the secret?”   This was the question from my oldest regarding the engagement of his cousin/best friend to his longtime girlfriend.  I was confused because we all knew that they had just gotten engaged hours before so I wasn’t sure why he was asking.   It was public knowledge and we were all…

Nature Calling

As we were getting ready to welcome our Christmas day guests for dinner, I heard Brian bellow for me….”Hurry!  You have to see this, but be quiet.”.  Okay, first of all, when I am hurrying, I am hardly quiet, but in the spirit of the season, I decided to attempt it.   As I reached the…

In Conclusion

There is a reason I love the magic of Christmas Eve…….anticipation.   Even as a child, I would appreciated the build up of excitement.  While Christmas Day was the main event, I have always felt a letdown after all the festivities were complete.  Almost a “is that all there is” feeling.  Yesterday was no exception. Maybe…

The Believer

As I sit on my couch wrapped in a blanket enjoying my only cup of coffee for the day, I am basking in the quiet.  Having older children allows for that space in the early morning before they reluctantly get out of bed.  The Santa situation has dissolved or so I thought. The night before…

Being Aware

It is no secret that the use of the “R” word sends daggers out my eyes.   Each time it is used, I visualize Bailey and all of his friends that are developmentally delayed.  The word is unnecessary and hurtful, but I realize that not everyone is tuned into my way of thinking. Recently, I experienced…

Tradition

I step on the shore of tradition.   While I grew up in a home that thrived on holiday customs, I have yet to adopt any.    Actually, I really didn’t think about it until yesterday while out with the boys. In an effort to get into the Christmas spirit, I secured seats at the theater…